 Dear Alison, Last week, my partner of 10 years and I eloped. It was just us and two close friends. We got married at our local registry office, the two of us went out for dinner at our favourite restaurant, and splurged on a fancy hotel for the night. It was perfection. We did not, however, tell the rest of our friends and family that we were getting married. We've been engaged for a couple of years, so they've all got a bit fed up of asking when it's going to happen – which is why we felt like it was the right time to commit to eloping, something we've both always wanted. It's not like we don't love our friends and family, we just wanted it to be about us. Do you have any suggestions for how we should tell them without burning bridges? I'm particularly worried about our parents' reactions. Thanks, Poppy Dear Poppy, Congratulations on your marriage. Everybody has a different idea about what they want for their wedding day. Your wedding day sounds lovely, and it must have given you time to focus and celebrate your love for each other more intimately. Sharing the news with your friends and family can be a delicate process, but remember that your feelings and choices are valid. Take time to reflect on why you chose to elope. Understand and articulate the reasons behind your decision, so you can explain it thoughtfully to others. Being honest and sensitive in how you announce your news is so important. It might be a good idea to arrange to meet up with the parents first and tell them. This way, they are the first to know and can give you a chance to explain. Then choose a time to sit down with close family and friends to share your news. Express you appreciate their understanding as you share something personal and important. Let them know how much you love and value them and how vital their support is to you. Please acknowledge that you understand they may have been looking forw){kind=link}
NEWS… BUT NOT AS YOU KNOW IT
Dear Alison,
Last week, my partner of 10 years and I eloped. It was just us and two close friends. We got married at our local registry office, the two of us went out for dinner at our favourite restaurant, and splurged on a fancy hotel for the night.
It was perfection.
We did not, however, tell the rest of our friends and family that we were getting married. We’ve been engaged for a couple of years, so they’ve all got a bit fed up of asking when it’s going to happen – which is why we felt like it was the right time to commit to eloping, something we’ve both always wanted.