![Pinterest](https://pinterest.com/pin/create/button/?url=https://uknews.evprotec.com/partner-insulted-my-vagina-during-an-argument-and-said-its-too-big/&media=https://uknews.evprotec.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/11/Deidre-OFFPLAT-06-NOV-SEX-CLINIC-1.jpg&description=DEAR DEIDRE: MAKING love to my partner is emotionally painful as I struggle to overcome the memory of things he's said. During a big argument he started insulting my looks and said some really nasty things about my vagina, namely: 'No one has one that big, even from childbirth. I've even looked into surgery and other treatment Resident agony aunt Sally Land is taking The Sun's legendary advice column from the page to podcast. Each week, Sally will be joined by an expert and some of your favourite celebs to give helpful, entertaining advice to listener problems. A brand new episode will be available every THURSDAY. Listen HERE, or wherever you get your podcasts. "My ex had three kids and hers wasn't that big.' We have had sex since but I can't enjoy it. I'm 28 and he's 30. We had a son together one year ago. He has repeatedly tried to reassure me he didn't mean it. Every problem gets a personal reply, usually within 24 hours weekdays. Still, every time we have sex it's all I think about. I feel so ashamed. I've even looked into surgery and other treatment. DEIDRE SAYS: What an ignorant thing to say. Women's vaginas get bigger temporarily after childbirth but most go back to their pre-birth size in around six months. Some women take a bit longer and practising your pelvic floor exercises regularly will help. If you are still worried please talk to your doctor and ask to be referred to a postnatal physiotherapist. Meanwhile it sounds as if your partner truly regrets his hurtful words but he will need to keep reassuring you. Consider seeing a sexual relationship therapist, either alone, or together – cosrt.org.uk can help you find a reputable therapist.){kind=link}
DEAR DEIDRE: MAKING love to my partner is emotionally painful as I struggle to overcome the memory of things he’s said.
During a big argument he started insulting my looks and said some really nasty things about my vagina, namely: “No one has one that big, even from childbirth.
Resident agony aunt Sally Land is taking The Sun’s legendary advice column from the page to podcast.
Each week, Sally will be joined by an expert and some of your favourite celebs to give helpful, entertaining advice to listener problems.
A brand new episode will be available every THURSDAY.