DEAR DEIDRE: I THOUGHT I was enough for my girlfriend because we have such intense sex, yet she wants to bring other women into our love life.
I’m a female of 32 and my partner is a 27-year-old bar worker in a lap-dancing club.
She’s always known she is gay, but I’d only ever dated men until I met her. She would pop into the bakery where I work most afternoons and we got chatting.
We really connected over our love of R&B music. She asked me for my phone and put her number in it.
I messaged her the following Sunday morning and we went for a walk. When we got back to my flat, she kissed me and I was shocked.