DEAR DEIDRE: SHE has cheated on me before and now I’m paranoid my wife may be up to her old tricks again.
I’m 45, she’s 42 and we have been married for 23 years. We have two teenage sons, one at home and one at university.
I work as a salesman, and despite having had plenty of opportunities for one-night stands while on the road, I’ve never strayed. My wife works part-time in a bank.
Things were difficult when we first got married. We were always arguing and she admitted to having a fling with a random guy on a night out.
She then cheated on me with a guy who’d come to service our boiler – I walked in on them having sex in our kitchen.