DEAR DEIDRE: I HAD sex with my new boyfriend last night but I insisted he had the lights off. I’m now worried my performance was rubbish.
I’m a woman of 31 and I haven’t had a boyfriend for seven years.
He’s a lovely guy of 28 and we’ve been seeing one another for two months. He said he would wait longer but I didn’t want him to get bored with me.
We’ve kissed and cuddled and got a bit sexual but I feel so out of practice.
I cooked him a meal last night and he couldn’t drive home because of the wine he’d had, so I invited him to stay over.