Controlling ex torments me by making it so hard to see our daughter

DEAR DEIDRE: EVEN though we have now split up, my controlling ex is still trying to abuse me through our daughter.

For seven years, she treated me terribly.

She put me down, stopped me seeing my friends, spent all my money and got me into debt by secretly applying for credit cards in my name.

I’m 33 and she’s 30. Our daughter is five. I finally managed to get away from the destructive relationship last year.

When we broke up, my ex insisted our daughter lived with her.