I feel like an outsider since I started my new job

DEAR DEIDRE: MY colleagues constantly leave me out and it’s making me feel worthless.

I’m a 30-year-old woman and I recently started a job in an office with a very small team of people.

No matter how hard I try, I always feel like an outsider.

They’re always having a laugh with each other, and make no effort to include me.

Often they will go for drinks after their shifts, but I’m yet to get an invite.