Marriages are built on love and trust, and if one of those things isn't present, then it can be really difficult to maintain a healthy relationship with a significant other. But if your partner was constantly texting another woman, would you trust them, or be suspicious? One woman took to Mumsnet to explain that her husband worked with a woman who he started to message privately 'a lot'. She thought it was a bit too 'intense', and when she confronted the situation, he was 'angry'. He accused her of having trust issues, rather than making her feel better about it - which made her even more baffled, and led to people telling her to 'trust her gut'. The woman wasn't happy with the behaviour her husband was exhibiting (Stock Image) ( Getty Images) She wrote: "I f eel awful with myself for feeling uncomfortable about partner's female friend. He worked with a female of a similar age for almost a year and honestly all was fine, and she seemed nice. "The group, including her have stayed in touch on a group thread and met up as a group which seemed good. "Then I noticed that her and my partner would be texting privately a lot. Every time he had his phone in his hand there seemed to be a text from her so I questioned it in my mind as it was new. It's totally normal that people text but it just suddenly seemed very full-on and intense. I don't think it was daily without fail but most days. "I don't know what all the texts were but a few were her asking to meet up. Apparently every time she had a day off she'd be seeing if he was free. "He then said she'd cheated on her boyfriend and alarm bells rang a bit. She has an Instagram profile with very revealing pictures which is totally up to her, but then I noticed my partner had l){kind=link}
The woman received mixed replies when she asked whether she was being unreasonable for her concerns over her husband constantly texting another woman – but some women gave her home truths
Marriages are built on love and trust, and if one of those things isn’t present, then it can be really difficult to maintain a healthy relationship with a significant other. But if your partner was constantly texting another woman, would you trust them, or be suspicious?
One woman took to Mumsnet to explain that her husband worked with a woman who he started to message privately ‘a lot’.
She thought it was a bit too ‘intense’, and when she confronted the situation, he was ‘angry’. He accused her of having trust issues, rather than making her feel better about it – which made her even more baffled, and led to people telling her to ‘trust her gut’.
She wrote: “I f eel awful with myself for feeling uncomfortable about partner’s female friend. He worked with a female of a similar age for almost a year and honestly all was fine, and she seemed nice.